What anger shows??????
They say anger is also a sign of love. I was thinking, how?
So, here is what I can think of as the supporting reason in favor of the argument.
Q>> Whom do we get angry with?
A>> Either, to the person who is completely stranger to us & has done something terribly wrong which does affect the ecosystem we are part of.
Or, someone whom we know somehow pretty closely at present.
Q>> Is it by any chance with those whom we are in a formal relationship like PM, colleagues, teachers, acquaintances?
A>> Yes, but occasionally.
Q>> So? What does it signifies?
A>> It means we get angry with people from whom we have either no expectations at all or lots of expectations. No middle path.
Disclaimer: The questions & answers are the result of the thought process of the author. Has someone shouted recently on you or you have politely yelled {When we shout, we are always polite & well-mannered ;-)}?
Someone yelled…or you politely shouted on someone…in person, on phone, via e-mail… with questions like:
“Why did you do this….??” “How can you do this…??” “What are you trying to prove…??”
If yes, then mind it…it may not be in anger. Its may be b’coz other person cares abt ur opinion or vice versa i.e. you care about that person, else why the hell we will patiently wait to hear all this.
After these arguments some people just walk away with bad thoughts about you, while some will stay indefinitely there to wait for your response. These are the ones who care not only about your opinion but also about YOU.
Anyway, if you don’t agree then go ahead, read another blog or post comments. See, I won’t mind any of the options, bcoz my simple theory says “If I don’t know you, I don’t mind.”
I am not strict abt these views. It is just that I can break my head this much only on these lines. Post Comments if you have difference of opinion, who knows may be your comments can give some add-ons to my point of view.
If its air it’s one, If its land it’s two.
I read this line in a screensaver some days back. I was thinking what could possibly be such a thing. It appeared to me like a puzzle. Like a question, striking my mind from days. So, one possibility is that on land two persons may be away at two distant places, but then they share the same air, same sky, same sun, moon & stars.
So, if its air its one, if its land it’s two. Looks like I am in romantic mood today, hence let me stop here only!
Some unpleasant experiences.......
Sometimes in life, it is really difficult to work with some people in the team. Especially when you are working for pretty long hours together and your team member smokes and you don't. Even if they go out for a walk and smoke, I tell you they smell....Ugh....yuck. Some of them try to be little sympathetic towards there non-smoking colleagues and have some mint or mouth freshener after smoking. Still better, but the combination generates one weird smell. So, here I propose one idea for the discovery of scented cigarettes. So that when my colleague returns after smoking, I should not be a victim of those weird smells. Scientist worked on something like this long back I surfed & here is what I found.
Aromatic,Slimmer,Flavoured CigarettesBTW, I don't mind colleagues smelling Lemon or Vanilla, better that this yucky......burning tobacco smell
.;-)
Personal IMDB............
Last evening one of my friends was watching TV when I entered the room.
I saw her watching some movie on STAR Movies. I just asked……… Which one??
She said with a cute smile on her face…..I surfed, I saw, I started watching….
I said to her you reminded me “Veni, Vidi, Vinci”…Miss Caesar :-)
Hold on… This post is not about Miss Caesar or Julius Caesar …by the time I was just smiling back at her and trying to jump into one chair….and could concentrate what scene is going ON....one of our common friends came to meet us & instead of saying HI to us, she said “King Kong”….
Bingo…here she goes again……
You switch the channel, a scene comes and she hits it right there, in a fraction of second with the name, cast & history of the movie
I like movies too but...…She is a movie buff I tell you….simply crazy about movies….romantic, thriller, comedy….you name it she loves it….
For the world she may be anything but for us she is our cute, little IMDB ;-)
A Message from God ...........
One of the coolest jokes I heard after long:
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An atheist professor was teaching a college class and he told the class that he was going to prove that there was not a God.
He said, "God if you are real, then I want you to knock me off this platform. I'll give you 15 minutes!"
Ten minutes went by. He kept taunting God, saying, "Here I am God, I'm still waiting"
He got down to the last couple of minutes and a Huge 250-pound rugby player happened to walk by the door and heard what the professor said.
The rugby player walked into the classroom and in the last minute, he walked up, hit the professor full force, and sent him flying off the platform.
The professor got up, obviously shaken and said, "Where did you come from, and why did you do that?"
The football player replied, "God was busy; He sent me!"
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Enduring Emotions...........
Last night me & my friend were dicussing about the royal wedding and the yearning of the couple for thirty years. It is unbelievable that some people can wait for their love, through all the ups and downs of life. For those of you who don't know :
"The wedding brings to a conclusion a relationship between Charles and Camilla that began in 1970. They became great friends but there was no proposal and Camilla married cavalry officer Andrew Parker Bowles, but divorced him in 90's I guess.
Charles married the then Diana Spencer in 80's. Even,Diana, Princess of Wales, famously referred to Camilla as one of the contributing factors in the breakdown of her marriage to Charles. "
Divorces happen. They are never pleasant, but most of us get a second chance of happiness.
Why should Charles and Camilla be any different? In middle age they are embarking on a marriage they should have begun three decades ago. They have travelled a difficult, dangerous and sometimes devious road.
There will be questions raised on the knavery of their earlier marital lives. I feel their stand was improper in the sense that they should have realised the love for each other and married instead of falling into adultery and being unfaithful to the partners they chose. But now the past is over. Diana cannot be brought back or replaced. It was in news that even she had accepted that Camilla was the love of Charles's life.
How different history would have been if they'd recognised the strength of their feelings back then and married one another first time round??
It's brilliant, I think it's really nice that they're married, they've waited long enough in this world where "time and tide waits for none", I mean nobody likes to wait for someone and I'm just really pleased for them. :-)
Change..........!!
"You live like this, sheltered, in a delicate world, and you believe you are living. Then you read a book, or you take a trip, or you talk with XYZ, or you surf, or you blog and you discover that you are not living, that you are hibernating. The symptoms of hibernating are easily detectable: first,restlessness. The second symptom(when hibernating becomes dangerous): absence of pleasure. That is all. It appears like an innocuous illness. Monotony, boredom, death. Millions live like this(or die like this) without knowing it. They work in offices. They drive a car. They picnic with their friends.
And then some shock treatment takes place, a person, a book, a song, and it awakens you and saves you from death. An inspiring book, a lovely song or the love of a person. They come close to you and trespass in your sheltered space. You feel your mental state is being disturbed by the warmth of either that inexplicable silence in the conversation of you and that person or the lovely song or that revolutionary paragraph of that book. You say you do not want this change. You say I am not like others and I do not want to change. I am happy in my own world. Still that shocking thing keeps alarming your thoughts now and then. You are demented by the affect it is trying to make on your mind. You hate that arousal of thoughts which force you to change your mental setup and to look forward to a change.
Change in the job scenario, or in the thought process, or budding up a new relationship. You simply do not want that alteration in your life. Why should you change? You have been born like this, and you feel you are different from others due to this. If you are still with the line of thoughts I am sorry to say that some corner of your heart really wants a change. You are not ready to accept either a new career, thoughts of some old friend or someone's love knocking desperately on the
door of your heart. Or you are revolutionized by the book you last read but regret it can't be practised pratically.
The reason you are alone in this thought process because you are afraid of that change. You are afraid that the new job might not give the freedom you are excercising in your present job. The person who loves you is an unknown personality for you....what if this person left me.....what does he/she know about myself.....these thoughts get clogged in your mind. Let me add here E.M.Forster's famous quote "You can transmute love, muddle it, ignore it... but you can never pull it out of you..."
Is the thought discussed in the book really brainstorming?? Does the writer really means it or just bragging??
Or, Is that person who asks for my love really worth it?? Where was my concentration when last time he/she was around?? Were my eyes searching for that face in the crowd and whenever they met with her/his eyes, I felt strange?? Can he/she love me without a reason or just pretending to love me for a specific reason be it beauty or brains, and that love will die off if the reason goes?? Is he/she really devoted to me and has not forgotten me even when I am away?? Can he/she wait for me or has waited in the past??
Am I not using all of my skills fully in the job?? Does the job I am looking forward to offer me challenges which I am missing here?? Do you know that there is a famous saying that "Many people quit looking for work when they find a job." ;-)
Give answers to the questions for yourself and the betterment of your life. If answers to the questions is YES. Look for quality: be it either at work,in an imporatant relationship or some reading material. You definitely need to accept that song, career, book or person in your life. You have to change your attitude with time, because we all know that "Nothing is as constant as Change."
Don't judge the book by cover and the person who loves you by looks. Ask yourself whether this job offer is going to satisfy my needs or will there I get a chance to experiment and quench my thirst for learning.
Call the person who loves you for a cup of coffee, look for depth in thought, don't make it obvious that you are interested just test them for various situations. Especially be rude and angry to them and notice the reaction. If they can tolerate your arrogance they can bear anything for you in life. Don't meet them for few weeks and see is the love-affect momentarily because they just need someone for the heck of it or its long-lasting. Check for sensibility in replies to your question. I will quote an example here, last week someone in my office went to meet a girl for marriage and imagine that girl is asking him "What is your favorite color? Which is your favourite dish? The guy was pissed off and replied that I get to eat properly only one meal i.e dinner and sorry i then don't have time to look for favorite dish and all." Send them a mail or call them for xyz reason but don't make it explicit that you are interested in them,remember you just want to check if that works without letting them know that you may like them in future, tell them you didn't get meaning of there last message ,what does that mean? When you meet or call make them feel at ease, then check for sensibility and understanding and longliving relationship.
"Give a chance to the new job offer, the love of the person, the revolutionary thoughts in the book. Who knows this change can change your life forever.......As someone has very well said,
"Change is the essence of life. Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become."Just some rough scribbling. If you are really good people don't want you to change, your PM will say you are doing good if you ask what more skills you want me to pick up. The one who loves you will just keep mum and won't say anything if you go & directly ask what do you want me to do in return for your love. What they only want is your faith in them, your PM wants productive work and your lover wants just love in return.You don't believe this, if you are bold enough go & try it, if you are not trying.........you are back to square one! ;-)
Petty little comments.....
Recently I was going through the controversy that people dragged PM Manmohan Singh into with reference to the visa for Gujarat CM Narendra Modi. The PM's statement in parliament aroused the disturbance in Congress. Why can't these politicians see above the picayune politics, about the respect of the country? Why can't they see that whatever PM has done is not for favoring certain individual but for taking a tough stand against a country which cannot just boss over rest of the world and look down to the sovereignty of any nation. Other issue was related to the opposition party in centre calling the PM the 'weakest PM' ever. The problem with this world is that the soft-spoken people are considered to be weak( to be recaptured in the next post).
And the award goes to....!!
Cricket Mania is in air. Everyone discussing the same issues either in person or through emails. And here comes the most circulated forward of the week,
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Behind maggi 2 minutes noodles pack:
Step 1: Boil one cup of water
Step 2: As soon as ganguly goes for batting, put the noodles in the boiled water and add the tastemaker.
Step 3: Stir till ganguly is on the field.
Step 4: As soon as ganguly is back in pavilion, your noodles r ready to eat
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Can you beileve this I got this forward twice in each of my three different mailboxes. So the award for most popular forward of the week goes to this forward. Poor Mr. Ganguly, whole india is behind you and you are at the back of the Maggi's pack. ;-)
What it means..?
Is it true...??Being a girl i would say, Yes.Sorry I can't say about guys,but I am sure they will disagree because it starts with disagreement always.
Everything seems in place which is said in the picture, its true that a girl if really loves a person would not forget him ever in her life.The only point of concern is why can't she be independent? Keep the love to herself, feel pride in that love for the special person. Being a girl of today, I know most of the girl will do it, they may be weak in front of the person they love, but for the rest of the world they are as strong as a rock, never allowing anyone to question about their love and integrity. Probably lovers won't like me telling it weakness because they call it emotions or sentiments. But why the hell a girl should keep looking for someone else. Why she needs to express it,that too to an idiot guy who doesn't understand. May be that's why they say: "Love is Blind" ;-)
My point of view:
" It is easy to find someone we love but difficult to find someone who loves us.Never let go a person who loves you.But then don't keep waiting for that person to come."
